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Posted by : ThoughtLess21
on Thursday, November 10, 2005 - 07:51 PM EST |
My boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year and I found out about 4 months ago that he has an addiction to crack. Snorting or Smoking he doesn't care. The main thing he said to me when he told me was " I am not a crack head!" I said ok. He feels like he doesn't have a problem. But when you pawn my SUV and my cell phone and steal my entire paycheck, it becomes my big problem. He has even gone so far as to pawn his wallet and his drivers license for the drug. He even pawned all of my entertainment items (stereo, 2 tv's, portable fire place, PS2, and DVD's and PS2 games). Don't get me wrong I love him and would do anything for him, but I can not keep living day to day. He can but I can't. When we first got together he treated me like a queen, but now that he has collateral with my things it is like I don't even exist anymore. What should I Do?
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Re: Help me figure this one out! by CAT 
(Score: 1) on Nov 11, 2005 - 10:27 AM
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get out now your only with him a year i have been with my husband since 1993 and it still has not gottin any better he has has is good months and his bad ones but now after all these years and we have 2 kids i 2 weeks ago made him get out of the house my husband has sold his phone tv's camras cable boxes money and he also took my kids bounds i love him with all my heart but this problem never seens to end get out befor it get to far maybe if you go he will get help to get you back thats what im hoping for
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Re: Help me figure this one out! by cocaine
(Score: 1) on Nov 13, 2005 - 01:40 PM
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That's crazy
Im in the EXACT same position...Ive almost been goign out with my boyfriend for a year and he's an addict too... aND i ALWAYS CALL HIM A CRACKHEAD AND HE SAYS "sHUTUP iM NOT A FUCKIN' CRACkHEAD" And I always get paranoid ont he weekends when he goes out that he is doign drugs and than obviously I find out he was etc.. and it's a neverending battle. |
Re: Help me figure this one out! by dancerica 
(Score: 1) on Nov 17, 2005 - 12:16 AM
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Get the hell out!
I did. You won't regret it. The longer you wait, the harder it iwll be to leave. NOT the reverse. It's just like them with the drug. The longer they wait, the harder it gets.
Good luck, and know you have people here to talk to who understand. Just try not to be so stubborn with those who try to help you. Be stubborn with him instead. You don't deserve any of this nonsense.
RUN!!!!
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Re: Help me figure this one out! by dancerica
(Score: 1) on Nov 17, 2005 - 12:16 AM
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Get the hell out!
I did. You won't regret it. The longer you wait, the harder it will be to leave. NOT the reverse. It's just like them with the drug. The longer they wait, the harder it gets.
Good luck, and know you have people here to talk to who understand. Just try not to be so stubborn with those who try to help you. Be stubborn with him instead. You don't deserve any of this nonsense.
RUN!!!!
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Re: Help me figure this one out! by Altenburg
(Score: 1) on Dec 09, 2005 - 06:25 AM
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I think my comment may be a little different from the others. I have managed to break the cycle and get away from drug use. I had rented out a friends car on more than one occasion in exchange for drugs and had to track it down. I had pawned and stolen. I hated myself for doing drugs, spending my money and losing my self respect. I often look back and it is a wonder I didn't get killed going into those places. I had the good fortune of a partner who stood by me even though I had been so irresponsible and as a result we often had to do without. The trouble is knowing when and where to draw the line and know when enough is enough. I certainly don't advocate making yourself a doormat for someone. You have to protect yourself. I know if I had lost my partner's support, I probably would not have recovered.
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