Welcome Guest   Home    Contact Us    Search    Chat Rooms    Forum    Disclaimer & Policies   Forum FAQ  Search   Usergroups  Preferences  Members List   Fun Store   Watched Topics  Watched Forums  Sub-Forum   leaving for treatment Cocaine User Helping Hand Forum Index -> Crack Addiction   « View previous topic - View next topic »   Author Message lilbubba49 Devoted Joined: Apr 18, 2006 Posts: 723 Status: Offline   Posted:Apr 30, 2008 - 08:37 AM Post subject: leaving for treatment Hello everyone,just wanted to let everyone know im leaving for treatment on mon.I have moved into my new place and spending the week unpacking and getting it organized so hubby dont have much to do while im gone.Im looking forward to it but not looking forward to being away from home.It is so nice to be sitting here enjoying the piece and quit because we have no one living with us,no more step sons to make my life a living h-ll.I will be taking the bus there because hubby works that day and its his first day back after holidays so cant take it off.I will try to post before i go,hope everyone is doing ok.Im sorry to here what your going through with your dad Bill,you are in my thoughts and prayers. Hugs Diane Back to top Admin Site Admin Joined: Nov 20, 2003 Posts: 974 Location: Vancouver-not BC, Washington-not DC. Status: Offline   Posted:Apr 30, 2008 - 11:55 AM Diane, I wish you Good Luck! _________________ Your Admin, Gene. -=People who ask our advice almost never take it. Yet we should never refuse to give it, upon request, for it often helps us to see our own way more clearly. =- Back to top pause4poetry Moderator Joined: Jan 06, 2006 Posts: 1095 Location: Southern Illinois Status: Offline   Posted:Apr 30, 2008 - 07:32 PM So very proud of you for doing this for yourself. Will miss you, but will be thinking of you and keeping you in my prayers here. Take care of yourself ! Love, Michelle _________________ Positives create better results then Negatives Back to top rick_h 12 step Recruit Joined: Apr 13, 2008 Posts: 65 Status: Offline   Posted:Apr 30, 2008 - 09:40 PM You are doing a great thing for yourself - I am proud of you ! Listen with your heart! Back to top lilbubba49 Devoted Joined: Apr 18, 2006 Posts: 723 Status: Offline   Posted:Apr 30, 2008 - 11:15 PM Thank u everyone for your thoughts and prayers.I went to a meeting tonight and there was a girl there who attended meetings around the same time as me a couple years ago,shes taking her two year cake tomorrow.It felt good to be back there and to see her so happy. Hugs Diane Back to top flaggin Helping Hand III Joined: July 06, 2006 Posts: 887 Location: Vancouver, B.C.   Posted:May 01, 2008 - 11:13 AM wishing the best for you diane. flaggin _________________ I can embrace myself, hold my own hand, love me - but, I can't gaze into my own eyes and feel my own soul lift me up. Back to top lilbubba49 Devoted Joined: Apr 18, 2006 Posts: 723 Status: Offline   Posted:May 01, 2008 - 09:26 PM Well they changed my date from the 5th until the 12 of may,seams there were 15 guys and only one women,me,I said i dint mind but I guess she dint think it fair that i get all the attention lol.Only kidding she dint feel it was fair for me to be the only women among all those men and I agree.I dont think I would want to be there by myself.So i have to wait,its just hard getting all ready for it and getting used to the idea and than delayed.Oh well. Hugs Diane Back to top Asadwife Resident Joined: Jan 02, 2008 Posts: 78 Status: Offline   Posted:May 01, 2008 - 09:39 PM Diane, Wish I had some pearls of wisdom to offer you. All I can say is that I wish you every success in the world. You are strong and you are caring. When I read your posts this shines through above all--your heart. I will pray for you Diane that you may find your own feather bed. A place where you can fall softly and the world will be okay. Back to top rick_h 12 step Recruit Joined: Apr 13, 2008 Posts: 65 Status: Offline   Posted:May 01, 2008 - 09:46 PM Its tough when that happens Diane - but if you hang with people from your meetings, the chances are you will land on your feet. I am one of those people that believe everything happens for a reason, maybe something better will come out of having to wait. Hang in there, it sounds like you havee a great attitude - that can help alot! Keep up the good work! Back to top pause4poetry Moderator Joined: Jan 06, 2006 Posts: 1095 Location: Southern Illinois Status: Offline   Posted:May 02, 2008 - 12:00 AM Well you can look at it that you have a few more days to spoil the hubby, and enjoy the peace and quiet of your new place. Quote: It is so nice to be sitting here enjoying the piece and quit because we have no one living with us, Now your talking... a little time to smell the roses and a few more days for your friends here on this site.... Love, Michelle _________________ Positives create better results then Negatives Back to top Jenni Helping Hand I Joined: Sep 10, 2006 Posts: 774 Status: Offline   Posted:May 02, 2008 - 02:21 AM Diane, Sorry you got delayed. Perhaps next time around will be girls time. In anycase know that my thoughts and prayers are with you. You can do it. -Jenni Back to top lilbubba49 Devoted Joined: Apr 18, 2006 Posts: 723 Status: Offline   Posted:May 02, 2008 - 09:40 AM Thank you all for your good wishes.I am just going to enjoy my new place and relax while I wait,its just another week to wait so thats not too bad it could of been worst.In the mean time I can take in meetings,they have 3 a day here so that helps and i know a couple of people that go so I wont be alone.Also my countceller wants me to start taking in a womens meeting they have here on mondays so I will prob.check it out.I wish spring would hurry up were suppose to get up to 14 today but they keep changing it,the drab weather is so depressing. Hugs Diane Back to top lilbubba49 Devoted Joined: Apr 18, 2006 Posts: 723 Status: Offline   Posted:May 05, 2008 - 09:33 AM Well spring has finally arived in alberta.The sun is shinning its a beautiful morning.Life is full of hope and im looking forward to a great summer without the *censored sh_t.Spend a nice evening out at my sons place this weekend we had a bbq,hes a good cook,who of guessed lol.I dint get to see much of the grandkids thow one had a birthday party and the other had her noise stuck at the computer all evening.By baby granddaughter in vancouver just turned 3 and what a little ham she is.Life is good. Hugs Diane Back to top Asadwife Resident Joined: Jan 02, 2008 Posts: 78 Status: Offline   Posted:May 05, 2008 - 07:03 PM Hey Diane-- Glad you had some fun this weekend. Just wanted you to know that I have been thinking of you. I was so glad that you said life is full of hope....because it sure is! Stay strong! Kelly Back to top lilbubba49 Devoted Joined: Apr 18, 2006 Posts: 723 Status: Offline   Posted:May 06, 2008 - 02:54 PM Thank-you kelly for thinking of me and responding to my post.Im just waiting now as I count down the days to I leave.I will hate being away but it will be worth it in the end.I have some friends here going through the same thing right now and with some clean time under their belt they have been great support.I will set forth a plan for to follow when I get home.I will have too much time on my hands because im not working but plan to do some volenteer work with the homeless.Thats about it for now. Hugs diane Back to top lilbubba49 Devoted Joined: Apr 18, 2006 Posts: 723 Status: Offline   Posted:May 08, 2008 - 05:09 PM Ok I only got a few more days before I go,so far everything is going good.Im going to miss hubby but I guess he will be allowed to visit on sundays.I hope this works and I never have to go away to treatment again.I guess if a person wants it bad enought they will make it work. Hugs Diane Back to top rick_h 12 step Recruit Joined: Apr 13, 2008 Posts: 65 Status: Offline   Posted:May 08, 2008 - 09:38 PM Diane, I hope its all you expect and more! Like I said before, listen with your heart! Good luck. Rick_h Back to top keepitreal Helping Hand IV Joined: July 04, 2006 Posts: 1474 Location: Southwest Side of Chicago Status: Offline   Posted:May 08, 2008 - 10:58 PM lilbubba49 wrote: I hope this works and I never have to go away to treatment again. I guess if a person wants it bad enought they will make it work. Treatment is not a cure all Diane but, it does remove you from your ability to use at free will, and gives you the opportunity to really reflect. I may not believe in treatment... but, I believe in YOU! Keep on keeping my friend! In my Thoughts & Prayers, All My Love, Lynn _________________ If you can not stand for something, you will fall for everything Back to top Admin Site Admin Joined: Nov 20, 2003 Posts: 974 Location: Vancouver-not BC, Washington-not DC. Status: Offline   Posted:May 08, 2008 - 11:30 PM I agree, treatment gives you a window of opportunity. It is much more important what you do after the treatment. As I said before Good Luck, I believe that you are deserved a happy life. _________________ Your Admin, Gene. -=People who ask our advice almost never take it. Yet we should never refuse to give it, upon request, for it often helps us to see our own way more clearly. =- Back to top lilbubba49 Devoted Joined: Apr 18, 2006 Posts: 723 Status: Offline   Posted:May 09, 2008 - 08:43 AM Thanks Lynn and gene and rick,Three more days until I go.I leave at 3 in the morning to be there by 830am.Oh finally looks like were going to have a day without rain or snow.Happy Mothers Day Sunday to all u beautiful mothers out there.I will post sunday and say good bye for abit to all my friends here. Hugs diane Back to top Display posts from previous: All Posts1 Day7 Days2 Weeks1 Month3 Months6 Months1 Year Oldest FirstNewest First