My husband is my cocaine addict. He left the kids and I for 3 weeks when I confronted him about his addiction. Stating he was gone for good. Three weeks later he came home but told me that he is just here for the kids and that our relationship is done. (he has been home 1 week)I thought our marriage was fine except for when he was out all night (occasionally) using. I believed all his lies. I also believed when he told me that I was his rock and his life many times over 22 years of marriage.
He claims he has not used since Sept 27th. He stays out most of the day at work and comes home after we are in bed. How long can he keep doing this for? How long before his mind clears and he realizes what he is throwing away? How long before his emotions come to terms that he loves us and doesn't want this crap?? Will he ever come around, if he truly is staying clean?
My husband is my cocaine addict. He left the kids and I for 3 weeks when I confronted him about his addiction. Stating he was gone for good. Three weeks later he came home but told me that he is just here for the kids and that our relationship is done. (he has been home 1 week)I thought our marriage was fine except for when he was out all night (occasionally) using. I believed all his lies. I also believed when he told me that I was his rock and his life many times over 22 years of marriage.
He claims he has not used since Sept 27th. He stays out most of the day at work and comes home after we are in bed. How long can he keep doing this for? How long before his mind clears and he realizes what he is throwing away? How long before his emotions come to terms that he loves us and doesn't want this crap?? Will he ever come around, if he truly is staying clean?
sincerely,
inshock
Your post is too vague for me,
to express an opinion or comment on his drug addiction.
But, I sure have a lot of questions.
Furthermore, the questions you've asked...
we don't know the answers, anymore then you do.
Though, I must say,...
the fact that he was gone for 3 weeks,
and told you, he only came back for the kids,
and that the relationship was over....
on top of, not coming home,
until after you have gone to bed...says a lot!
Maybe it's you,
who needs to come to terms,
that the relationship is over.
Peace
Lynn
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