You should care about someone besides yourself sometimes...
Are you unable to see my avatar?
It's all about me...DEAL WITH IT
..my point exactly. You're transparent...someone to be ignored... someone I don't take serious... need their head examined...etc. ect...
J.
Finally, someone said what I (and I'm sure many others) have been thinking forever! Since my husband found this site a long time ago, I have been spent a lot of time reading Lynn's "contributions" ... and I have found that her "reality checks" are unnecessarily mean. She seems to take pleasure in the confusion and pain of others. If you will notice she NEVER talks about her own issues... but would rather sit in judgement and write long posts that could have been summed up in two sentences. Sometimes reading them, I wonder if she isn't high while commenting on this forum.
I agree that she is someone who shouldn't be taken seriously... and does indeed need her head examined. Since it is "all about her" though, I suppose she will continue to lie in wait for new people to ask a question so she can insult and hurt them. That seems to be her MO... at some point someone should start a thread titled "IGNORE LYNN." Cruelty has never helped another human being. Period.
Since you feel I'm someone who should be ignored,
why are you antagonizing me then?
Up until now, I've had no problem ignoring you.
That's what I do when I want to ignore someone...
I IGNORE THEM.
Since you feel I should be ignored,
not taken seriously and have my head examined...
what does it matter to you, what I don't write about?
If you've read a lot of my posts,
but, not all of my posts....
how do you know what I've never talked about?
Are you able to read the 200+ posts I deleted?
How do you know I have issues,
that I NEVER talk about?
Furthermore....
Who in the h-ll are you to say anything about,
someone having issues they NEVER talk about?
missmeltdown wrote:
A little marijuana I could live with... this I can't. Coke is another story and that is an argument I am not having on this thread.
It's easy to blame me and talk about my drug use. But you still don't have a clue as to some issues we have. Remember, you NEVER know the whole story about anyone, just what they want you to know.
I didn't ask advice about my addiction
,
You got bent out of shape,
when Tasi brought up the issue of your own habit.
As far as your concerned, your habit is not even an issue.
Smoking pot is O.K., coke is not....end of story.
Let's see...you've only posted 7 times,
your habit isn't an issue or open for discussion,
you've spent a lot of time reading my posts, even though,
you say I should be ignored and not taken seriously...
and, I'm the one who should be ignored,
not taken seriously and have their head examined.
Priceless!
edited to remove an extra quote box
_________________ If you can not stand for something, you will fall for everything
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One vote for you. I don't want to ignore you. I might not always agree with you, but I learn a lot from what you are writing. You are blunt and say what you feel...something most folks aren't ready for. There is nothing wrong with that. I would rather you lay all of your cards out on the table than to be fake. You are definitley genuine--I will give you that.
You are blunt and say what you feel...something most folks aren't ready for. There is nothing wrong with that.
There is a lot wrong with that...read www.cocainehelp.org/index.php?name=MDFo ... 1613#11613
If you or anyone else thinks that it is okay for someone to tell a new person whos trying to kick coke to go do another line,then there is something seriously wrong with you.
Seems like you keep pursuing Lynn. If you are here for help get it. You are in for the fight of your life and do not need to spend your energy arguing with Lynn. Are you the person who had coke under your bed to sell? If so, you are not serious. Even as a non-addict I know this. These people here are serious. That is that they are doing here. Come here for healing, help, and for giving back not for fighting and arguing.
Seems like you keep pursuing Lynn. If you are here for help get it. You are in for the fight of your life and do not need to spend your energy arguing with Lynn. Are you the person who had coke under your bed to sell? If so, you are not serious. Even as a non-addict I know this. These people here are serious. That is that they are doing here. Come here for healing, help, and for giving back not for fighting and arguing.
...having coke under my bed???!! where did you get that from? I never had any drugs under my bed. And the part about pursuing Lynn...to become disturbed and distraught after seeing a person abuse another, is NORMAL, it's HUMANE. To sit back and say nothing or do nothing about it is insensitive, inhumane, COWARD even.
Lynn,
You are blunt and say what you feel...something most folks aren't ready for. There is nothing wrong with that.
There is a lot wrong with that...read www.cocainehelp.org/index.php?name=MDFo ... 1613#11613 If you or anyone else thinks that it is okay for someone to tell a new person whos trying to kick coke to go do another line,then there is something seriously wrong with you.
J.
And, if you or anyone else, seriously thinks,
someone is trying to kick their coke habit,
with 2 grams of coke stashed under their bed....
THEN THERE IS SOMETHING SERIOUSLY WRONG WITH YOU!
Furthermore, if you or anyone else,
seriously thinks that anyone,
whose been....
eRockBottom wrote:
activly binging on censored %==> for over 8 months.
Peeking now at a ball every 2 days.
would even stash their remaining 2 grams of coke under their bed,
after they've been up snorting for almost 2 days already,
then, there is really, something seriously wrong with YOU!
And, as if that's not absurd enough.
Buying that whole scenario, plus...
he still hadn't touched it, 3 days later
You're really off your rocker
I told him to go do another line,
because he never stopped to begin with!
I wasn't being mean and encouraging him to use,
I was being sarcastic and letting him know,
I AM NOT BUYING HIS BULLSH!T!!!
So, when is the wizard going to get back to you about a brain?
Oz isn't that far from La la Land.
_________________ If you can not stand for something, you will fall for everything
And, as if that's not absurd enough.
Buying that whole scenario, plus...
he still hadn't touched it, 3 days later
You're really off your rocker
I told him to go do another line,
because he never stopped to begin with!
I wasn't being mean and encouraging him to use,
I was being sarcastic and letting him know,
I AM NOT BUYING HIS BULLSH!T!!!
How do you know he never stopped using? Do you have a crystal ball? and because he still had some under his bed... so what? he could have done it all. Have you stopped to think that maybe that is progress? Maybe he could have been talked into dumping the rest, but NO you, being sarcastic tell him to "go do another line". You're impatient and intolerant of others using? Get a life. No one cares if you don't like their progress or whatever. The world does no revolve around you.
Seems like you keep pursuing Lynn. If you are here for help get it. You are in for the fight of your life and do not need to spend your energy arguing with Lynn. Are you the person who had coke under your bed to sell? If so, you are not serious. Even as a non-addict I know this. These people here are serious. That is that they are doing here. Come here for healing, help, and for giving back not for fighting and arguing.
And the part about pursuing Lynn...to become disturbed and distraught
after seeing a person abuse another, is NORMAL, it's HUMANE.
To sit back and say nothing or do nothing about it
is insensitive, inhumane, COWARD even.
Soooo, that's how you feel, huh.
Gee, that's not how you felt,
when you posted on eRockBottom's thread...
Have a question for all users, or exusers.
eRockBottom wrote:
I wanted to know how you guys felt or thought about people who use cocciane for Recreation, or on ocassion. Never evoloing in to abuse or habbit. I think we all have friends that never got into coccaine hard core, but took part in ocassional group activies.
I dont know why I wish to know, but curious. Do you guys feel its ok for recreational use? I guess it will be hard for us addicts to answer this, because we couldnt stay away from it. But I know many people that can and do. and don't really see it has a bad thing.
eRockBottom wrote:
Actually I'm curious about non-users too. whats yuor opion. I know must of us are here because of a problem facing us, or someone close, so answers might be abit biais. Another factor might be age. I am a younger sud. 22 years of age, so it is probaly alot more common as reacreational use with people in my age group.
I dont think recreational use with older people sits in the same boat fo me as being ok.
Its seems these people know when to say no, and reach a point in life when the social, ocassionaly, usage times would slimder or stop.
so. what do yuo think it is ok? is it ok for the younger age group to social try it,
apoised to an older-range group of people.
Iamempowered wrote:
"to each, his or her own" as long as you're not hurting me or anyone else...
it's none of my business to say what someone ought to do or not do..
But, wait....it gets even better!
Here's the rest of your response...
Iamempowered wrote:
A good friend told me there is nothing worse than a "converted" anything. People think that it is their sole purpose in life to tell people how to live their lives. I despise those who do. Just because i tried something and failed what gives me right or anyone else the right to tell someone that they will fail...not my gig.
And,YOU have the audacity,
to question MY role in this support group?
Iamempowered wrote:
Why would anyone in a support group
suggest to another person who is "trying" to go do another line?
You got some issues, Sister.
YOU ARE A F-CKING JOKE!!
How you're able to stick your foot in your mouth,
when it's so far up your a$s, is beyond me.
Thank you for taking the time to humiliate yourself in public!
_________________ If you can not stand for something, you will fall for everything
The response I gave to the stementent in questions are CLEAR: Who has the right to INSIST/TREAD upon another's RIGHT do or say what they want to do(and going to do) or say? Looking at it from the point view of drug intervention i. e. the slogan "just say no" to the commercials "This is your brain on drugs" etc...what has telling,demanding,insisting, jailing people, showing films about drunk driving accidents etc. has done to curb drug use or drub abuse in this country?. People are still getting hooked on drugs and driving under the influence everyday, inspite of clear evidence that drug use is risky. I'll go you one better...how has the knowledge of the destruction that drugs bring on a persons life has prevented YOU from using drugs? I'm sure you had a prior knowledge of the dangers and risk of getting hook on drugs but you tried and got hooked on them anyway. So my next question is WHO ARE YOU TO JUDGE SOMEONE IF THEY ALSO HAS CHOSEN TO USE DRUGS INSPITE OF KNOWING THE RISKS? HOW CAN YOU JUDGE? HOW CAN YOU ABOVE ALL PERSONS BE INTOLERANT?
And, as if that's not absurd enough.
Buying that whole scenario, plus...
he still hadn't touched it, 3 days later
You're really off your rocker
I told him to go do another line,
because he never stopped to begin with!
I wasn't being mean and encouraging him to use,
I was being sarcastic and letting him know,
I AM NOT BUYING HIS BULLSH!T!!!
How do you know he never stopped using? Do you have a crystal ball? and because he still had some under his bed... so what? he could have done it all. Have you stopped to think that maybe that is progress? Maybe he could have been talked into dumping the rest, but NO you, being sarcastic tell him to "go do another line".
Let's talk about you...what is your story
Iamempowered wrote:
You're impatient and intolerant of others using? Get a life.
No, I'm not impatient and intolerant of others using...
I'm impatient and intolerant of other peoples bullsh-t!
I'll get a life when you get a clue!
Iamempowered wrote:
No one cares if you don't like their progress or whatever.
The world does no revolve around you.
It's never been about progress or a lack of progress.
It's about being accountable for the progress or lack of progress.
I could care less, who cares...
but, who died and made you the spokesperson for everyone?
And, I know the world doesn't revolve around me...Thank G0D for that.
But, what about you...what color is the sky on your planet?
_________________ If you can not stand for something, you will fall for everything
It's never been about progress or a lack of progress.
It's about being accountable for the progress or lack of progress.
What in the he|l are you talking about here? Are you saying that you can determine by crystal ball when someone is lieing to the GREAT AND ALL MIGHTY LYNN? I haven't forgotten that it is all about you now. No one owes you a damn thing here on this baoard or anywhere where else for that matter. You got life bent. You talk as if you have all the answers and can see through people. SEE that you are full of yourself/*censored sh_t.
Ignore Lynn,
I am so loving this. I have needed a good chuckle for a while now. Ignoring Lynn is like ignoring a pink elephant in your livingroom. I'm ROFLMFO!!!
Lynn.... doesn't this have overtones of how our love affair began??
Darling, until one gets used to your style and realizes what a kind brilliant woman you are they can go ahead and ram their heads against that brick wall again and again and again as long as they like.
If they had taken the time to read any of the conflict or post that you and I worked through they would see that they are so last year.
In the end it's all about getting and staying off dope.
We all have different styles and approaches. As long as people let the ego get in the way they will continue to fight to prove their point. Even Missmeltdown who is in denial about her own addiction feels the need to comment about you and us and the evils of cocaine versus weed. Meanwhile poor Stephen is hurting so bad she can't see the forest for the trees cuz she so damn busy judging and wishing she had the pot smoking man she married. I wonder if she ever stopped to think that perhaps she has a part to play in the progression of his disease. Maybe he feels shut out JUDGED and unloved and that's why that beautiful soul finds solice in this site and phoning and IMing total strangers who do have empathy and don't judge him.
Lynn I love you and couldn't ignore you if I tried. Wouldn't want to anyway. Your fellow super B.I.T.C.H.
This is the funnest thing Ive read on here for awhile.Love u lynn,I hope this lady knows who shes up aganst and bows out before u really give it too her.I just want to say ive been comming here for 2 years and have never knowen lynn to not give down to earth advice.The ones who cant take the brutal truth are the ones who challenge her to a battle of the wits.lmfao.
And, as if that's not absurd enough.
Buying that whole scenario, plus...
he still hadn't touched it, 3 days later
You're really off your rocker
I told him to go do another line,
because he never stopped to begin with!
I wasn't being mean and encouraging him to use,
I was being sarcastic and letting him know,
I AM NOT BUYING HIS BULLSH!T!!!
How do you know he never stopped using? Do you have a crystal ball? and because he still had some under his bed... so what? he could have done it all. Have you stopped to think that maybe that is progress? Maybe he could have been talked into dumping the rest, but NO you, being sarcastic tell him to "go do another line".
Let's talk about you...what is your story
I'm really interested to hear what your story is....
it would definitely shed profound insight into your responses.
Anyhoo....
Iamempowered wrote:
How do you know he never stopped using? Do you have a crystal ball?
Do you need a calculator to find the sum of 2 + 2?
Did we read the same posts?
What kind of addict are you, that you can not reason,
addictive behavior based on personal experience?
Premises
Circumstances
Logic
Probability
Reasoning
Truth
Reality
Validity
Conclusion
Iamempowered wrote:
and because he still had some under his bed... so what? he could have done it all. Have you stopped to think that maybe that is progress? Maybe he could have been talked into dumping the rest,
No, It never entered my mind...and it never will.
But, hey, if that's how you see it...more power to ya.
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